Wednesday, September 28, 2011

He Sets the Orphan Free


Someone out there reading this will become Mommy and Daddy to a very special little boy.

Wherever you are, whoever you are, I want you to know that we've been praying for you.

We're praying for your clear discernment to move forward. We're praying for your courage.  We're praying for your strength and endurance. We are praying for financial provision. We're praying your son will be with you soon. We're praying God gives you everything you need to be parents to this wonderful and deserving little guy.

We won't stop praying.

Our goal with this blog entry is to have one post with all of the information that is currently available about sweet Moses.  We're asking you to share this on adoption groups, Facebook, blogs, Twitter and anywhere you think that potential adoptive parents might be reading.


Early in the morning on Tuesday the 9th of August a Haitian woman knocked on the gate of Heartline Ministries Maternity Center in Tabarre, Haiti. In her arms she carried a little boy. She asked one of the Heartline staff if there was an orphanage nearby.  The gate-man answered, telling her that the house was not an orphanage and she'd need to look elsewhere.

She voluntarily shared that the little boy she was carrying in her arms had not always "been like this" - that he had suffered a high fever and after that he was not the same anymore.  She said he was two years old.  That woman is assumed to have been his biological mother.

A few hours later another Heartline staff member came running to find Heartline Ministries director, Beth McHoul inside the Maternity Center because they saw a little boy lying in the dirt near the gate.  The employee and Beth picked the little guy up, brushed off the dirt and bugs, and carried him inside.

No other information about this little boy's history is available.  Heartline staff made multiple attempts to locate the woman, to no avail.  She has not been seen since the morning of August 9th. Because he was left on the ground without any papers or further identifying information, we don't know what his given name is. We don't know when or where he was born. We don't know how long ago he had the fever that most likely caused his brain damage.

On the 9th of August two different people in two different locations (one Haitian and one American) both thought that the little boy should be called 'Moses'.  In Kreyol it is spelled Moise and is pronounced Mo-EE-ze.  All of the Heartline community began calling him Moses/Moise the same day he was found.  He now responds to that name. 

The day he was found a plan to file legal paperwork was made. The filing took place over the next few days. On August 9th Moses was moved to live with a missionary family that works with Heartline. Moses has mainly been cared for by their 16 year old daughter, Paige.

It is believed that Moses probably had untreated Meningitis that caused his brain damage. There are other possibilities too, but this seems most likely.  In the seven weeks Moses has been cared for by a family he has made incredible tangible progress.  He holds his head up and steady for short periods of time, he can bear weight on his legs, he exercises his limbs and has greater range of motion, he responds to people. Moses clearly gives and receives love. He responds especially to people he knows well and recognizes. He responds to touch. He responds to music. He belly laughs. He expresses pain. Moses currently weighs 20 pounds. We would guess he is two and a half and probably closer to three years old. He eats soft foods that are spoon fed to him. He drinks with assistance from a cup.

When Moses went for a consultation at Handicap International they gave their professional opinions regarding his Cerebral Palsy and his future. They believe that he has the possibility to one day operate a wheelchair with his hands. They think it is possible for him to eventually walk a few steps to move himself from a chair to a bed. He responds well to stimulus and is alert so he will be able to learn certain things by being rewarded with results, such as pushing buttons to operate a chair or feed himself. It is not expected that he will say very many words. His range of motion and flexibility are good and will improve with physical therapy and exercise.

Most importantly - We believe with God all things are possible. Moses has captured many hearts and we don't underestimate the power of the prayers being lifted on his behalf.
 
Past posts with Moses:
The day after Moses was found.
Photo
More Photos
Video(laughing)
More Photos 
Prayer Request
Preparing Hearts and Home


Moses will be moving on September 30th. He will be traveling by plane to his new temporary home.

The Children of the Promise Children's Home and Adoption Program will be taking care of Moses and processing the adoption paperwork for his adoption.  Their program is located in northern Haiti.  Their adoption coordinator can be reached at this email address: cotpadoption@yahoo.com They will ultimately be matching Moses to his adoptive parents.

For those new to Haiti's adoption laws and practices we'll simply say that the process is ambiguous and can be challenging.  There are hundreds of families that have successfully completed Haitian adoptions that can answer questions and be a prayer support.  One of the very first things to do if you are interested in adopting Moses or any child is to get started immediately with a licensed agency on your home-study.

The current legal requirements in Haiti are as such:
1. Parents must be 35
2. Must be married 10 years
3. No biological children

However, as long as you either come close or can meet two of those requirements, you can very likely still qualify to adopt Moses. The rules are more lenient for special needs kids.  The closer you are to meeting those qualifications, the quicker the adoption could potentially be processed.

If God is moving you to inquire about Moses please contact Robin at this address: cotpadoption@yahoo.com

Costs to adopt: 
The rough estimate on his adoption is listed below. This list does not include any travel expenses. Adoptive parents will need to come to Haiti. Please add in the cost of travel. Children of the Promise requires families go through an agency, but the agency they are working with has agreed to lower their fees as well.

The estimated fees
·         Country Fee - $5,000
·         Agency Fee – $2,250
·         Translation - $250 - $500
·         I600a - $720 (plus $85 fee for biometrics for each person over 18)
·         Home study - $2000 average (varies state to state)
·         Haitian Consulate - $100
·         ESTIMATED TOTAL: $10,570  (Plus Travel)

Thank-you for praying. Thank-you for sharing this information.

He sets the orphan free.

21 comments:

Marla Taviano said...

Tears. Praying so hard for Moise's new family.

Life Unbound said...

What a beautiful little guy! Praying that his family will step forward soon and for all of you as you say good-bye to this precious little one. Paige- I don't know you, but I can tell you have a beautiful heart and love Moise very much. What you did for him mattered and I know our heavenly Father is very pleased.

Anonymous said...

HE sets them free! Praying that for Moses today.

Nikki said...

Praying for Moses, this is such a beautiful opportunity...we've been wanting to adopt from Haiti since 2006, still don't meet the age/yrs married qualifications dangit. And I really dislike that no bio kids rule.

Ann Fouts said...

I'll also be praying for peace for you as you say goodbye to this piece of your heart.
Ann

Angel said...

He's precious. I'll be praying for him and for you guys- I know you'll miss him. I can tell he's loved.

Dr. Jenny said...

Tara, what is Moises' status with guardianship? Through our recent heartwrenching adoption journey I learned that "abandoned" children have a year "wait time" before they can be processed for adoption. Will this be an issue for his forever family? Also, does the orphanage have a website?

@Nikki: the qualification of no biological children can get a presidential dispensation without any really issue. That requirement is much softer.

Barbara said...

I just have to say that you have such an amazing daughter in Paige. Mature beyond her years and such a blessing to little Moses. I can tears in my eyes watching the videos. I'll pray that he is joined with his forever family quickly.

Sarah said...

I'm praying for an amazing family for the amazing Moses!

I just wanted to let readers know that I adopted from Children of the Promise and they are a.m.a.z.i.n.g. They have incredible hearts, the children get tons of attention, and are taken care of so well. When we adopted our son, we were presented with almost 200 photos, a good medical history (what they knew of), pictures of his bio mother, samples of his work at their preschool (lots of handprints) and hair from his first haircut.

I think it's the hair that did me in. They are a thoughtful, contentious, and thorough orphanage. I wouldn't hesitate to adopt from them again.

God already knew before time began who Moses' family is. It's great knowing He has it covered!

Annie said...

HOORAY! Our boys are from COTP too, and I'm so happy that sweet Moses gets to find that to be his home while he waits. It doesn't get any better than that!

Annie said...

And the website is www.childrenofthepromise.org

Mike and Katie said...

Is there more to "Parents must be 35"? Like 35 and under or 35 and over?

T & T Livesay said...

Katie- one parent must be 35 - or older and the oter it doesn't usually matter.

Dr. Jenny - working on finding your answer.

Melda said...

Sweet, sweet Moses.
Jesus loves you little one.
He has a plan and a purpose for your life.
You did not creep into the world without his knowledge, and HE is now preparing a place for you.
I know without a doubt that you have already touched so many lives, and many more are to come.
love and prayers from Guam!

Anonymous said...

Praying for sweet Paige and all of you. Paige, you are an amazing young lady!

Love,
Karla

karamurano said...

praying for this sweet boy, and his parents (whoever they may be)! I cry every time I see this post and I know that God has a family prepared for Moses!

~Stephanie said...

Oh my... what a light he has in his eyes. We just went through a heartwrenching adoption experience that resulted in a failed match. We would welcome him with open arms.. unfortunately we don't fit ANY of the requirements. 3 biological children, 1 adopted child, married 7 years, and neither of us are 35! :( We will be praying for his family to come forward.

Abby said...

One thought is to get Moses out on a medical visa first and then proceed with an adoption. This would allow him to get to his forver family more quickly and get the help he needs. We are just completing our adoption of another little boy from Haiti with CP and followed this process. Happy to help if I can.

Tari said...

As a mother of 10 (6 joined us through the miracle of adoption), my heart goes out to this sweet boy. I can't read any of these posts without tears streaming down my face. I too have a 17 year old daughter, and your Paige reminds me so much of her. My daughter is headed to Africa next summer to serve the orphans there.

I am praying for sweet baby Moses and the family that God has prepared. He has certainly tugged at my heart.

Thank you for sharing your lives with us! Very inspiring!

Ransomed~Redeemed said...

Hi, I have 5 biological children and have wanted to adopt HIV or CP children from Haiti for some time. Have you met any families that have be able to do this recently with our amount of bio kids? Do special needs adoptions get expedited? Thank you, Alida w5

T & T Livesay said...

Pray for Moses' mom and dad -- they are in Wyoming waiting on him!!!! He has a family. :)